Saturday, November 21, 2009
Go Scrooge Yourself!
Flashback 4000 years ago and we’ll find that Pagans were the first to celebrate Saturnalia or the Winter Solstice. They celebrated the return of the sun after a long cold winter. The evergreen was a symbol of life that endured during the harsh winter months so they brought them into their homes. Some hung apples from them to remind them that the spring and summer would eventually return hence the decorating of the tree. The name Christmas would not come for another 2o00 years when Christ was born(if he really was born that is). The exact day of the Christ’s birth has never been pinpointed. Many say that it has been celebrated since 98 AD. In 137 AD the Bishop of Rome ordered the birthday of Christ celebrated as a solemn feast. In 350 AD another Bishop of Rome, Julius I, chose December 25th as the official day of Christmas.
Christians did not believe in the Pagan rituals and traditions so they decided to name it Christmas which translates into Mass of Christ. It is believed by many that Christmas was made up to compete with the Pagan celebrations of winter. By the middle ages the Pagan celebrations were replaced by Christian traditions because it was thought by the church that the Pagan traditions and beliefs were an abomination. So as usual, the Christians once again imposed their beliefs onto the rest of society. Some things just never change do they!?!
So what’s with all this pressure to give, give, give?? Why is it that we spend hundreds if not thousands of dollars every year on people we rarely see and usually bitch about constantly? How is it that we were able to corrupt such a meaningful celebration of the season and of life and of our surroundings into such a chaotic and bogus reason to spend mindlessly by either emptying our pockets or racking up debt only to realize that by the time all is said and done, the only thing we have left to show for the holiday is the longing for everything to slow down for a while and to never see your relatives again (or for at least another year).
According to some, no one was in the habit of giving gifts until the late 1800’s when stories of Santa Claus giving gifts to the children became popular, most likely a story made up by American retailers to boost sales and to start a tradition that would keep them rich for centuries to come. This tradition was taken from, once again, the Pagans that would take to the street during the winter solstice celebrations and bring food and good-luck gifts, usually fruit, to one another for the coming year. Those traditions, in my mind, make much more sense than all of the hoopla that we are forced to endure for at least 4 months out of the year. Retailers have shoved Christmas and most other holidays down our throats and up our asses in an attempt to line their pockets and use our economy as an excuse to justify their actions.
I would have to think that the worst part to this entire Holiday Season is that everything we do echoes down into the future so what legacy are we leaving behind for the next generation. What are we teaching kids by going broke in order to satisfy a child who in no way has earned the right to be lavished with expensive gifts. ”If you are good just before Christmas time then Santa will bring you everything you ask for and afterward you can go back to being the total prick that you are!” How about we stop rewarding them for bad behavior and ONLY reward them when they actually earn it? Why does it have to be one time out of the year? Sorry dumb asses but it seems that your spawn have ultimately won the upper hand and you have only become a game piece in one of the hundreds of games that you spoiled your spunk with!
Okay so I don’t want to make this all about the children because enough of them already think it is! After all it isn’t their fault that they don’t have the proper representation in life to guide them, that’s your own damned fault! Did you really think that raising them would be as easy as making them? Yeah you would think that!
So after all is said and done, I still find myself trying to justify to others why it is that I am not fond of the holiday season. I find myself attempting to defend my thoughts and my beliefs and continue to have to listen to the cries of certain others such as, “but it’s the time of year that you should be with your family” and “you should be tolerant and put all of your feelings aside”. Show me where the fuck this rule book is that dictates to me how I should ignore everything that I am feeling inside simply so that I can sit in a house full of people that quite frankly I either don’t know or just don’t give a rats ass about one way or the other. Tell me not that it’s written in the “good book” and that I missed that chapter during the Sunday school lessons I was forced to attend as a child!
You are probably wondering why I am the way I am and now that I have gotten to this part of this post I can say without a doubt that the firm belief in faith that my mother holds in the church mixed with the uncertainty and stupidity of my fathers ridiculous quest for God, has given me the ability to seek out information and distinguish reality from absurdity. For me, the holidays were forever changed because as a child my parents made their intentions for divorce a reality during that time but make no mistake, they did not ruin my ability to seek out the truth and to celebrate it as I see fit. In fact, my eyes are open much wider because of it.
So the next time you are bouncing around town on Christmas Eve doing last minute holiday shopping for a co-worker that you barely know or for a nephew that is fresh out of detention and you are stressing and counting your last pennies, try and remember where the true meaning of the holiday came from and toss them an apple instead!
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
My Controversial God
I have never been one for organized religion and I spent the better part of my life trying to figure out who people were praying to when they lit their candles underneath a statue of some divine person that the church deemed worthy of canonization. Since my mid-twenties I have believed that religion was man-made and that it was just a way to control the behaviors of our world’s population. I grew up in a Catholic home, made my first communion and probably would have gone further had my parents not separated but as I found out early on, there is a reason for everything. After they divorced, my father set out on a quest of his own to find his own path. Unfortunately for me, I had the rotten pleasure of enduring the affects of his blind quest.
From the time I was 12 years old I was introduced from one “faith” to the next. Mother had full custody of me and my siblings and I was the youngest and unable to rebel the church as I would have liked while in the custody of my father. The weeks or weekends that I had to spend with my father were usually spent going from one church to the next until he found his “place”. The problem was that each of the places we had visited was more “cult-like” than the one before. Church members would bounce around waving their hands in the air, screaming and crying and talking in “tongues”. C’mon now I was only 12 for crying out loud! What does this kind of shit do to a 12 year old kid who is already dealing with the divorce of his parents??? Absolutely nothing good!
Now I am not saying that these places didn’t have some kind of merit or didn’t offer some potential at spiritual guidance but to a kid it’s just plain CREEPY! Here is the worst part of the entire experience; Every time we settled into a particular church some kind of scandal would unfold. Financial corruption, adultery, sex involving children you name it, we ran into it! So how is it that my father was able to turn a blind eye to it all and continue to slam me upside the head with the bible? I’ll tell you why……Because he is a FOLLOWER!! Not one who subscribes to the teachings or methods of another but rather one that imitates or copies another.
It seems to me that he was so busy looking for a place to fit in that he forgot the bigger picture, the spiritual well-being of his kid! Instead, he listened to anyone that would speak to him and it just so happened that it was the fanatical bible thumping groups that were giving him the attention that he so badly wanted or needed in his life. So once he settled into or should I say completed his re-programming of his non-denominational “faith” as he liked to call it, he decided that he would attempt to impose those same beliefs on me. ”Don’t judge people son that's only for God to do” he would say, but a few minutes later would say something like, “People like that(gamblers, party goers, gay people) are sinners and will go to hell”. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!? Way to go dumb ass!! You have officially set your kid on a path to religious and social destruction! OK so you get some of the picture of my religious skepticism so I don’t suppose I have to go on degrading the idiot referred to here on out as the “donor” but I have to admit, any chance at degradation of that man is both cleansing and just plain fun! But lets move forward anyway as this could be a long entry.
On the other side of the spectrum with Catholicism, I am doomed to either hell on earth or hell in the afterlife not to mention that I would have to be at church everyday of the week in order to confess to every sin in my life! The chanting, the kneeling, the standing, the squatting, the shaking of others hands not knowing if they’ve washed after wiping their asses or shaking off in the urinal! FORGET IT! It was the same old boring service week after week only to find out that there was more financial and sexual corruption in the church than there was in all of the world! To me, it was all a big theater production that was financed by the little basket that was passed around toward the end of mass. Who knew that salvation came with an actual price tag??!!
By the time I was 15 years old I had all I could take of God, church and religion and set out on my own journey toward spirituality and religion. Speaking of religion, what does it mean? Well let’s start with this:
Religion: a set of beliefs concerning the cause, nature and purpose of the universe especially when considered as the creation of a superhuman agency or agencies usually involving devotional and ritual observances, and often containing a moral code governing the conduct of human affairs.
Governing the conduct of human affairs???? Sounds quite a bit like what I mentioned earlier; just a way to control the behaviors of our world’s population. You know I probably could have been happy if this definition would have just left that last part out but unfortunately no matter where you look to define religion, the majority explains in one way or another that it is a way of outlining who we should be as humans. Who has the right to tell me who I should be or how I should live? Oh wait, I forgot!! We live in a country where the right tells the left how morally wrong they are and the left tells the right that they only think of themselves and government and then “we the people” get to choose sides and see how much of a hypocrite we all really are! Hmmm, sounds a whole lot like religion to me!
So who is it that we need to be listening to? Who creates this outline or moral code that we are having shoved down our throats? GOD? Who or what is God? Let’s try this:
GOD: The one Supreme Being, the creator and ruler of the universe.
RULER of the universe??? Wait wait wait, so now I have to believe that this “God” as he/she is called is the creator and ruler of the universe and that whomever decided to define this entity is the last and written word? Well thank goodness our founding fathers were smart enough to put into the constitution -the other written word- that we as Americans have the freedom of religion, or so they say. Of course every time I turn on the television I’m subject to any number of politicians preaching morality and submitting the word God into whatever ad or speech that might gain them popularity with the “Bible Thumpers of America” in whatever the poll of the day is! The radio waves are full of extremists that tell us how wrong we are in everything that we do in life only to watch as the skeletons of that same person are making a break for the closet door to inform everyone that they are addicted to pain pills! And then there are those groups that come knocking at my door thinking they can convince me to join their cult! These are the people we are suppose to be following? I would rather chew on glass as it is much more pleasant and is over much quicker!
At 21 I had a calling to explore and seek out the reasons that I was here, to find out why it is that I was spared from a near fatal accident. There were times that I cried out for answers but no one was ever listening. With every passing day life threw another curve ball or constructed a new wall for me to climb just to push me off of. The more that I tried to find my way, the more it seemed that something or someone did not want me to achieve this quest. I, however, decided that I was not going to allow “God” to just sit still and silent while I suffered more everyday in my life. After visiting one church after another, learning about the different faiths and different beliefs I came to the conclusion that every place I had visited pretty much had the same thing to say. The only problem was that very few of them were confident in knowing where we were going after this life, and the ones that were sure, expected that I had to climb a mountain and live out the rest of my life as a monk. I of course, during the car accident, had one of the most profound experiences that gave me some insight as to what was waiting on the other side and would set me on my quest for the reason that I remained in this realm instead of crossing over into the next.
Okay so I’m not here with any answers about God or religion, its just not my cup of chi tea! But I figure that if everyone will be cramming their points of view down my throat or up my ass via text messages or forwarded emails of religious chain letters then perhaps I should get a shot or two of my own in, so listen close because its my turn! Those of you that are easily offended either cover your eyes or piss off because it’s about to get real.
I don’t think any ONE religion has it right and if you think that your beliefs are the path to my salvation then you are definitely out of your mind. I don’t go to church because of the aforementioned reasons and I don’t follow the advice of anyone but rather choose the path that my heart or gut presents to me. I don’t believe that there is a God that sits above the clouds moving us about the earth as if we were pieces on a game board. I believe that we are all made up of energy and that we are all part of a collective in a vast universe made up of that same energy and that when we leave our human bodies we are all reunited with one another in that collective.
Yeah so its theory but it’s the one that works for me and one that I know that I can count on because as soon as I accepted my beliefs in spirituality, life seemed to go pretty easy. Once I learned to feel the vibrations and read the energy around me things started to simply unfold with no effort. I’m still waiting to see that burning bush, aside from the one that just left office, before I make any decision to believe that this God is sitting up there dictating our daily lives. With all that is going on in the world today between war, starvation, the money market, unemployment, global warming and just plain old hate I can’t imagine why this gracious, generous and loving God everyone mentions can just sit by and watch all the suffering. And please spare me any passages that come from a book that was written, revised again and again by MAN because the Book of Revelations is just another way for the government and man to instill fear in the populations of the world.
I realize that no one is perfect and to be honest I don’t think that we can achieve perfection in our human form. Human history shows that we are constantly evolving to adapt to the changes in our lives and in our world. To achieve perfection would mean that we have come to the end of evolution and an end to our growth. If that is the case then I would think that it would be the end of humanity. When all is said and done I can say without a doubt in my being that there is something out there bigger than all of us. This life-force, the energy that we are all made from is more powerful than all of the energy that man can encapsulate. Together, if we all put our heavy hearts and minds to rest and end the hate and the struggle for power, we could ultimately move ourselves to the next level of our existence. If you ask me, I think “God” should be defined as: the composition of every living thing on this planet and in this universe.